Resources

Books:


Tell Me No LiesPete Pearson and Ellyn Bader
Intimacy and DesireDavid Schnarch
Staying in LoveRobyn Salisbury www.sextherapy.co.nz  to purchase direct
Come as you areEmily Nagoski
The New Male SexualityBernie Zilbergeld
The Heart of DesireStella Resnick
Wired for LoveStan Tatkin
Hold Me TightSue Johnson

Useful Website Links:


The Couples Institute
http://www.couplesinstitute.com/couples-blog

The Five Languages of Love
http://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/communication-and-conflict/learn-to-speak-your-spouses-love-language/understanding-the-five-love-languages

The language of love quiz
http://www.proprofs.com/quiz-school/story.php?title=whats-your-love-langugae

Useful  TED talks:


Vulnerability
https://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability?language=en

The Price of Invulnerability
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_UoMXF73j0c

Animation on Empathy
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Evwgu369Jw&list=PLmHmICyEzbjZELowSuV5_mM6Xv1kJ_wDc

Animation on Blame
https://vimeo.com/117375823

Laughter as the best medicine
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t_E4_H0Y_wM

Secrets of Long Term Desire
https://www.ted.com/talks/esther_perel_the_secret_to_desire_in_a_long_term_relationship

Rethinking Infidelity
https://www.ted.com/talks/esther_perel_rethinking_infidelity_a_talk_for_anyone_who_has_ever_loved